Relationships.

2 posts in one day?! WOAH.

So I was reading Alex Evan's blog and saw that he wrote this:

we’ve all disliked people, and we’ve all been disliked as well. for good reasons like silly reasons. we always say we don’t choose who we love, but we actually do. you love that person that matches all those characteristics that you’re looking for in a person. and once you find something you don’t like in someone, let’s take for example jealousy, then you’ll start questioning yourself about that person, and you’ll wonder if they’re right for you. in friendships like relationships. but then, some will say we have to learn how to appreciate someone’s flaws in order to deserve them, which is true, but at what extent would we have to do so? when it comes to a point where you have to endure someone, it might not be a good idea to simply put up with the whole situation. or let’s say you feel like something is treating you unfairly, why would you just simply put up with it? and i know, a lot of people will stick around with them, no matter how that person will treat them. some will say “but i love him”, which makes me wonder what love is. how can you love someone who doesn’t have anything good to offer to you? - Alex Evans



I agree with him 100%, because we do choose who we love. "Love at first sight", do you truly believe in that? If you say that, then doesn't that mean you're judging them by their appearance, and not who they really are? And yes, if people have one flaw, you'll start to think. "Are they right for me?" , "Maybe he's not the right one". You should never have to endure someone, you should love them. Like REALLY love, not say "OMG, I have a crush on you." Because that is bullshit. It really is. And love is an equal share. You can't just have one person putting in all of the effort and have the other just going along with it. and when people say "I lost feeling," when they break up. I don't get it. Shouldn't you love them everyday? Even if you don't see eachother, shouldn't you talk? I think the type of relationship where you don't talk at all, is meaningless. There's no point in it whatsoever, don't you think?